This was answered by @JaredSohot on ask.fm.
i really like his answers because they're very detailed and are not the usual "idk" "lol no" answers you get on ask.fm :)

IMO there is no ideal type

Everybody's different and not perfect;
I, as hilarious as I am,
have numerous shortcomings that i know
may be interpreted as "not ideal" by a girl,
though i hope she'd accept me the way i am.

So going by that logic,
its unfair for me to categorize people according to their characteristics
into what is "ideal" and what isn't.
Cos i've met really emo-type people that are actually awesome,
and have also been turned off by supposedly nice people.

Anyways, what i'm trying to say is that
every different personality has their own unique appeal that I can't list down all of,
and all that matters is that we can click.

I can list down things for sure that i don't appreciate though
But would it really be necessary?
It's just be the generic things that many people also don't like lorh
Like being excessively bitchy/ slutty/ etcetc
You get the picture x.x

SO TRUE RIGHT

Tell 'em hey

Have you ever been to the suburbs?

You should!

Especially at night, when the stars come out...
(and look how they shine for you!)

The suburbs just have a very comforting feel, a homey feel.
Not the rushed stressful vibe of the city.

Not every square metre of space is squeezed with buildings
You feel less restricted

Back to nature


Rolling hills



Zen.

Honestly, who wouldn't want to be popular?

To have your idol remember you... That's pretty awesome.

Sneak peek of Ying Thai escapade!!

ANTICIPATE IT

Bleh I just... This is will be a quick rant I suppose.

I just... Feel kinda neglected sometimes you know?
I don't know if you do it without realising but everytime you hang out with her, i feel like i'm invisible next to you guys.
This feeling of inadequacy... Usually  i give you the benefit of the doubt, that you're laughing too loudly to hear me but sometimes at night i just can't help but feel so small.

Mm somehow you manage to ignore me...
I'm too soft, maybe?
But repeatedly i ask you the same question and still you don't hear it.

Was trying to join in the conversation but there were no chairs left...
I was stuck standing on the cold floor..
Sighz okay too angsty.

Pardon the bad english my grasp of both english (WHY) and chinese have dropped since i came here.
I have so many things i wanna blog about!

PICTURES OF SKATEBOARD WILL COME SOON.

Friday night.
It's not the night to go clubbing, nor partying.

It's YF!
Youth Fellowship!

Throughout the whole week before YF, I occasionally pause and consider not going...
Somehow my brain comes up with pathetic excuses:

i need to study
i'll be too tired after school
it's too far


But then somehow I manage to go.
Somehow. ^_^

It's been three weeks already since I started attending,
and each week either Will/Keene have offered to fetch me there.
Transportation, check.

Judith also recently posted a wake-up call on Facebook that stated the importance of God in our lives:
why stay at home and procrastinate for 5 hours about doing homework,
when you could be sitting in God' House learning more about him? ^_^

And each time after YF I just feel so...
Comforted?
Relieved?
Haha... Like I was just really glad that I decided to go.

Today's message really struck me though!

"QT Habits"

How do non-Christians even cope with life without God ahhh
It's like who do you turn to when you feel down???

Anyway the message was gooood.
It's been way too long since i did QT (Quiet Time)!

QT = reading the bible and learning lessons, a few verses at a time.
 and also TALKING TO GOD!

It's AN APPOINTMENT WITH GOD

Sigh i felt so bad for ditching QT ever so often, just for more sleep or more gaming time...
Kinda like your friend arranged to eat dinner with you but then just stood you up...

(except that this Friend is the CREATOR OF THE WHOLE UNIVERSE)

Also I was advised to ♪SING♫ before starting to read the Bible
[to prep my heart to worship God]
It's a novel idea! I think I'll try it. :)

***

Sing, Pray, Read, Pray.
Notice how they're all verbs: this means you have to put in EFFORT when doing QT!
Prayer is repeated because it's important!

***
Cleansing ourselves with the Word using SOAP:

Scripture       [reading the scripture]
Observation  [what lesson can you learn from this portion of scripture?]
Application   [apply it to your life!]
Prayer           [ahbuden]

 ***
And Prayer consists of...

Adoration
Confession
Thanksgiving
Supplication

***

We have to ensure that we keep this appointment with God!

1) we need to DESIRE God.
Just like how we want to meet up with friends, we must also want to meet with God!
God > anything

2) pick your PEAK time to do QT!
Why should we meet God at our lowest energy level, after sports and homework?
We ought to go to Him at our peak!

3) find a good place to do QT
Somewhere where you can be still, and concentrate on the Word.

4) we need the right tools!
e.g daily devotionals (Daily Manna, RPG)
AND also the right ATTITUDE.
don't be a grouchypants when doing QT~

***

Lastly, some tips →
Don't be overly ambitious in doing QT! You don't have to finish a whole chapter in one session if your stamina's not that good.
slow and steady wins the race...

Go at your own pace of QT, you don't have to compare with others!
After all what's important is IMPROVEMENT.

NOW GO DO SOME QT

LET US DENY THE ARRIVAL OF THE NEW SCHOOL TERM

Okay I have lots of things on my mind that I wanna blog about but I'm too tired ;-;
Adios amigos for now!

Crying because of a manga...
What is wrong with me...

T.T

So hi-ho guise,
I have returned from the land yonder,
ADELAIDE!

I have to say that church camp was really good and I'm glad I decided to go :)

• Foremostly, i feel that i grew closer to God
  (and that's really important!)
  The speaker (Dr Mark Lehman) was so interesting!

• Secondly, i got to know so many people from Ebenezer better!
  e.g:
  • ZACK
  • Judith
  • Joel
  • Uncle Hou-Lian
  • Auntie Christine
  • Auntie Poh Lin
  • Uncle Thomas
  • Lynette
  • Yvonne
  • Candy
  • William
  • Nat
  • Paul
  • Tim
  • Uncle Richard
  • Auntie Carol
  • Martin
  • Pastor Tan
  • Mrs Tan
  • Keene

• Thirdly, i got to know people from Hope BPC! ^_^
  Haha they're really really niceeeee omg i feel bad even being with them.
  Felicia washed my laundry even though i didn't ask her to! I didn't bring enough clothes so she offered to ;-;
  
  AND she also baked brownies and cookies for us to eat ahhhh

• Fourthly, i got to tour Adelaideeee.
  The food in Adelaide is delish.
  First night: Chinese food for dinner, AB for supper, and then chocolate for night tea!! ^3^
  CHOCOLATE TAPERIA IS A MUST-TRY IN ADELAIDE.

The legendary AB
The name supposedly stands for 'Abortion',
but other variants are:
'After Birth',
'Absolutely Beautiful' or
'Atomic Bomb'

A mix of chicken, lamb, chips and garlic sauce!
Kinda like Greek Yiros.

I know it looks disgusting but it tastes terrific ^o^

Highlight of the dessert-
Mmmm.
"Mmmmm & m" HAHA.
HAHA WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME
LOOK AT IT
Although he sucks at catching self-thrown grapes hahaha sorry zack ^_^
Hahaha actually it's not that scary, the storyline really pulls you in!

So recently i had one of my friends tell me, "you're shy but outgoing!"
And apparently that's good in a way :)

According to Google I'm a shy extrovert~
Which is slightly different from an outgoing introvert.

A shy extrovert would be energized around people but more reserved and susceptible to being socially awkward (at least in their minds, they would be).

An outgoing introvert would be more assertive and social and would have a longer battery run time during socialising. However, they would drain out during socialising and need to "recharge" in solititude.

Yeah, i guess i'm a little shy at times...
There are times when i want to insert a reference or punny joke into a conversation, but can't seem to catch the right time to put it in (or risk being awkward)



Just some quick thoughts before bed, a loong post is on its way! ;)